Showing posts with label Wedding Invitation wording. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wedding Invitation wording. Show all posts

Wednesday, 28 January 2015

Wedding Invitation Wording - What to Include On Your Information Cards

Today I'm carrying on with my wedding advice posts by looking at information cards with your wedding stationery.
I would say about 90% of couples who order from me now include an information card of some sort with their wedding invitations.
Many couples have guests coming from further afield or to venues which are unknown to them and a bit of extra information is almost mandatory so your guests feel they have everything they need to know without harassing the bride and groom every five seconds with phone calls!


Here are my top things to consider including in your information card wording ...

1. Full Addresses of the Venues
Including postcodes for Sat Navs

2. Directions
Try to include directions from the nearest motorway or main A road. Your venues website will often have good succinct directions on their websites rather than copying each individual instruction from a Google Maps direction search.


3. Accommodation
If guests are coming from further afield a list of nearby recommended accommodation will be helpful. Alternatively you may want to let them know they have a room reserved at your venue.

4. Travel
Guests who are flying in will want to know best airlines to book flights with and the nearest airport to fly in to. You may also want to add details of local train stations for those not driving.

5. Taxis
A list of local taxi firms so people can book taxis back to their accommodation or homes in the evening can be helpful

6. Gifts
Guests will want to know what sort of gift is appropriate so give details of your gift list, honeymoon fund, charitable donations or let them know that gifts aren't necessary at all.


7. Cash
Its always an idea to let your guests know whether or not they will need to bring money along for a cash bar if your venue doesn't accept credit cards or if there isn't a cashpoint machine nearby.

8. Itinerary
Its possible - mainly for weddings abroad or weddings that last the whole weekend - that you may want to give your guests some idea of a running order as to where they are expected to be and what is happening on each day.

9. Wedding Websites
Details of a wedding website you may have for them to find out more detailed information

10. Dress code

11. Time
Usually in the main wording of the invitation the time given will be the time the ceremony starts. However, you may want to give your guests a time to arrive by on your information card so you don't get any stragglers!

12. Children
The big one! If you are not allowing children at your wedding you should include this information on your information card. Many parents will assume their child is invited even if their name is not printed on the invitation so its always best to make it clear here.
There are many ways of wording this so as not to cause offence. Here are a few of my favourites...

"We are sorry but due to restriction of numbers at our venue we are unable to invite children to our wedding."

"We are sorry but due to restriction of numbers at our venue we are only able to invite children of immediate family only."

"In order to allow all guests, including parents, an evening of relaxation we have chosen for our wedding day to be an adult only occasion. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to share our big day and will enjoy having the day/evening off!"


I hope this helps when it comes to the wording for your wedding information cards. Not all of the information above needs to be included and obviously you have to bear in mind that there can be a limited amount of space on a standard information card, but extra information cards can always be purchased if necessary.

Nikki x

Wednesday, 14 January 2015

Advice on How To Word Your Wedding Invitations

As you can imagine, I have many customers who ask me for help when wording their wedding invitations. Most of you will have never done this before and although we'll often have received wedding invitations how many of us really pay much attention to exactly how they are worded!?
My initial help for customers is to send 'wording forms' along with their booking forms to fill in.
This will give me the basic information I need in most cases to lay out the wording on their wedding invitations.

Most wedding invitations will follow one of three formats ...

1. Formal

These will generally be written from the point of view of the bride's parents, or both parents, as they are the one's hosting (and often paying for) the wedding.
Traditionally the wording will go something like this ...

Mr & Mrs Smith
request the pleasure of the company of
Mr & Mrs Joseph & Jennifer Bloggs
at the wedding of their daughter
Elizabeth
to
Mr James Robinson
on Saturday 15th July 2015
at 1pm
at St Peters & St Pauls Church
Kingsbury, Tamworth, Staffs
with a reception to follow at Lea Marston Hotel
Haunch Lane, Lea Marston
 
Please R.S.V.P by 15th March 2015
to Mr & Mrs Smith, 115 Tamworth Road, Kingsbury, Staffs B78 2GG
 
 
Changes can obviously be made to accommodate divorced or separated parents and if both sets of parents are hosting.
 
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2. Semi-Formal
 
Often the most popular way of wording invitations at the moment, I find more and more couples are opting for this option which essentially gives an indication that the couple are hosting but with help from both set of parents. This is often the case these days ... either the parents are paying but the bride and groom really want the invitation to come from themselves and not be overly formal, or all parties are contributing money towards the wedding and wish to be recognised on the wedding invitation.
So wording may work as below ...
 
Along with their parents
Elizabeth & James
request the pleasure of the company of
Mr & Mrs Joseph & Jennifer Bloggs
on the occasion of their marriage
on Saturday 15th July 2015
at 1pm
at St Peters & St Pauls Church
Kingsbury, Tamworth, Staffs
with a reception to follow at Lea Marston Hotel
Haunch Lane, Lea Marston
 
Please R.S.V.P by 15th March 2015
to Elizabeth & James, 28 Coventry Road, Kingsbury, Staffs B78 2GG
 
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3. Informal
 
This third option is perfect if you are hosting and paying for the wedding yourselves. I've laid out some sample wording below, but to be honest with the informal option you can pretty much go as informal as you want ... throw out the rule book and make the wording fun and light hearted if you don't want to follow the traditional format ... it is your wedding after all!
 

Elizabeth & James
have the pleasure of inviting
Joseph & Jennifer Bloggs
to celebrate their wedding
on Saturday 15th July 2015
at 1pm
at St Peters & St Pauls Church
Kingsbury, Tamworth, Staffs
with a reception to follow at Lea Marston Hotel
Haunch Lane, Lea Marston
 
Please R.S.V.P by 15th March 2015
to Elizabeth & James, 28 Coventry Road, Kingsbury, Staffs B78 2GG
 
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Hopefully this gives you an idea of how to word and lay out your wedding invitations.
Obviously other things may be added ... "Carriages at midnight" to let your guests know what time to book a taxi, "Bring Your Wellies" perfect for a farm wedding .. and the always controversial "We are sorry but due to strict numbers at our venue we are unable to accommodate any children other than immediate family."
I'll be covering more on how to word these bits and pieces and what to include on an information card on another blog post next week so be sure to check back.
 
Nikki.